SuddenlySimple

SuddenlySimple t1_jb4h4uj wrote

Reply to comment by Aliriel in Night life by [deleted]

This I was thinking too. My son 33 is in the same boat OP. I know your pain I see him sad all the time he also doesn't want to be the creep at the bar alone.

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SuddenlySimple t1_jatt948 wrote

It is a Portuguese thing...my Grandmothers house also had a kitchen in the basement for entertainment when it wasn't being used as a living are for my Uncle when he came home from the Service.

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SuddenlySimple t1_j8tfyjm wrote

Yes, but I went 30 yrs ago when you could smoke in there.

I know later on in life I went to a place in Mass where you could smoke.

I was never one that could quit drinking and smoking at the same time, so I always came out and drank, subsequent years going for treatment at Butler.

And when I went to the one in MA where I could smoke, I stayed sober for 8 years because I only had to focus & pay attention to the program I was in and not my overwhelming desire to escape and have a cig.

But, when Butler DID let me smoke - I still drank and it was a co-ed thing....I think honestly that is why I drank again, because I met a guy in there and we hit it off & we both just wanted to get out and drink. We were young.

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SuddenlySimple t1_j6aatzv wrote

Don't know what that response is about been here my whole life everywhere now is very expensive..beaches aren't as great as they make them out to be probably one of the highest taxed States...I do have a house in Warwick also RI is a sanctuary State..just my observations of Rhode Island last 10 yrs not so great much better places. Jealous? I have a blessed life if I was selling and moving it would be out of RI.

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