Even if she heard she probably factored in he turned her down twice on doing anything. If you say you don't want anything, why get upset when you don't get anything. She did the right thing here.
OP, you should not approach her, but realize that u made a mistake in your communication and learn to do better. And instead of saying the opposite of what you mean, try to be more clear in your wants and not-wants
SyrusG t1_j6p6hdf wrote
Reply to comment by DplusLplusKplusM in I (21M) am upset that my girlfriend (20F) did not do anything for my birthday by brianthedogmanlol
Even if she heard she probably factored in he turned her down twice on doing anything. If you say you don't want anything, why get upset when you don't get anything. She did the right thing here.
OP, you should not approach her, but realize that u made a mistake in your communication and learn to do better. And instead of saying the opposite of what you mean, try to be more clear in your wants and not-wants
On that note happy cake day to u