Wow. That’s amazing. What are you hoping for? Something you can use to dox people?

You are out of your mind. And when you say “you have no skin in the game” you don’t know what that means.

Read the book. Write Bessel love letters. Start a subreddit for Bessel stans. Good lord.

That is just one part of a more robust post. And idk why you are focusing so much on that.

And this is vague because it has to be. There are professions that have many different rule sets they follow. Not everyone on Reddit is a 20 yr old boy. And not everyone on Reddit is without some level of reputation.

I made passing reference to that. But I work in this field. It is not at all unusual to cross paths with people in professional and public spaces.

“When people show you who they are, believe them the first time” ~Maya Angelou

Believe it even more if they keep showing you who they are when the spot light is not on.

Waking the Tiger by Peter Levine is a very good book.

Because avoidance isn’t “handling” anything. It makes your anxiety worse. That is science and it is proven. The exception is if something just isn’t or doesn’t need to be part of your life. I am not suited to being a skydiver or one of those squirrel suit people. But that’s never going to come up. My fear of glass elevators was coming up all the time. I had to work on that.

Source: I’m a psychotherapist that specializes in the treatment of anxiety and OCD.

That book is not worth reading and the author is a terrible human being. There are better books about trauma and anxiety