Got it. Could you elaborate on what her 'toxic dependancy' is? As far as I can see, she finally got some sort of glimpse of how things could be outside of her toxic environment, and even though it's obviously cheating, I don't see what makes her toxic besides that.

Definitely agree on the mental help. Don't know how I could suggest something like that to her though.

The child thing I disagree with, but I agree with not meddling in other people's relationships. I'm honestly ashamed of that, but it just happened. Because of my Autism I don't tend to click with women my age, which makes dating hard. I also had a bad experience in the past with a woman, putting me in a deep depression and with a heap of trust issues, especially against women. She is the first I finally feel at ease with. I'm being very careful of potential toxicity.

Thanks for your opinion though. Appreciate it.

First, she's 19, 20 in a month. That's legal. Second, you know nothing about either me nor her. She could be very mature for her age, I could be the opposite of that. My dad met my mom at 29, she was 18. Yet they didn't deserve any happiness because of the age gap or something? Grow up.

Such constructive criticism, I totally understand why you think that should happen /s