That’s what you think of, seeing this image? What a horrible take.

My friend’s favourite ffxiv emote.

I think we all want to do this after first snow. I have when i went to a sauna! “Snow bathing” and then tippy-tapping back into the warmth is amazing.

Is it… Really such a bad thing to have been given a bunch of free food? Freeze it, spend the food momey for the next week or two on other things.

I don’t get it. Is it shameful that someone that clearly has much more than they need shared some with you? That’s very nice of them!

Oh no no no. I’ve been in your position before (but with men), if you don’t tell them it straight they’ll keep working themselves up projecting their feelings for you back at themselves.

Sorry OP, i think it’s too late to salvage this. She might have been into you all this time and just hoping she’d get her chance eventually.

Rip this bandaid off. It’ll only get worse the longer you let this keep going.

You have nothing to be ashamed of, you can tell your family the exact same story about work that you told us. Tell them how tired you’ve been and how strongly you miss them right now. It’s not your fault you are so overworked, that’s what really caused all of this.

It took an entire year?

If the US was ever invaded most Americans probably wouldn’t even hear the news until the new government took over.

Sunk-cost fallacy isn’t good either, use moderation and reflect on whether you are the same person with the same goals as you were when you started. Perhaps in doing it you learnt something new and changed your perspective?