It’s not your fault. You weren’t working with all the information, you were just doing a very kind thing for your SO. I imagine this outcome didn’t cross your mind when you thought about what would happen.
You’re right about these things being hard to talk about. You need to pull it off like a bandaid, or it’s going to fester inside of you until you burst from the emotional stress.
“Sam, I know about you and Leo. This is how it makes me feel..”
How you found out really isn’t relevant, you can tell him, and if you feel the need to defend “I was so shocked I needed time to process it before I could talk to you”
All I meant to say was it isn’t your fault, apologies for getting tangential.
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Reply to comment by Certain_Syllabubb in TIFU as I presented my bf with his cheating partner on a silver platter by Certain_Syllabubb
It’s not your fault. You weren’t working with all the information, you were just doing a very kind thing for your SO. I imagine this outcome didn’t cross your mind when you thought about what would happen.
You’re right about these things being hard to talk about. You need to pull it off like a bandaid, or it’s going to fester inside of you until you burst from the emotional stress.
“Sam, I know about you and Leo. This is how it makes me feel..”
How you found out really isn’t relevant, you can tell him, and if you feel the need to defend “I was so shocked I needed time to process it before I could talk to you”
All I meant to say was it isn’t your fault, apologies for getting tangential.