Have you actually talked this out with her. As in how you feel, your issues in the marriage and how to overcome them?
It sounds like you both did some bad things based on your post, but if you are both open to actually working on them, therapy maybe then you can maybe work this out, but it has to be both of you together.
Can she get over what you did (assuming, since you say it's your fault, that something happened that lead her to this)
But can you also get over what she did. She made a choice and had some sort of relationship with this guy, can you see past it?
This is a 2 way street where both of you have to be fully on board or you both need to walk away.
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Have you actually talked this out with her. As in how you feel, your issues in the marriage and how to overcome them?
It sounds like you both did some bad things based on your post, but if you are both open to actually working on them, therapy maybe then you can maybe work this out, but it has to be both of you together.
Can she get over what you did (assuming, since you say it's your fault, that something happened that lead her to this)
But can you also get over what she did. She made a choice and had some sort of relationship with this guy, can you see past it?
This is a 2 way street where both of you have to be fully on board or you both need to walk away.
Good luck!