"My bf broke up" - he's cheating. "My bf didn't break up" - he's cheating but wants a cake too. "My bf farted" - he's cheating and his arse has spoken about it.
Seriously....
There is not much you can do besides respecting his decision. It's hard to pinpoint what made you guys grow apart, but that state is often irreversible unless both people have strong desire to change that. Looks like he doesn't for whatever reason.
Go through your emotions, breathe in and out, you'll be OK.
berryjuiced t1_iuhca2t wrote
Reply to comment by Lucavious in My partner of 5 years wants to move out but not break-up... I feel so defeated. by [deleted]
Don't listen to that.
"My bf broke up" - he's cheating. "My bf didn't break up" - he's cheating but wants a cake too. "My bf farted" - he's cheating and his arse has spoken about it.
Seriously....
There is not much you can do besides respecting his decision. It's hard to pinpoint what made you guys grow apart, but that state is often irreversible unless both people have strong desire to change that. Looks like he doesn't for whatever reason.
Go through your emotions, breathe in and out, you'll be OK.