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bubba7557 t1_ja8ck2n wrote

Reply to TIFU by telling my bf I want a lap dance by hellopoppyskit

The number of posts in this sub lately with low key and blatant sex work shaming suggests to me this sub is filled with little kids these days. Your tifu's is more looking down your noses at sex work then anything else.

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bubba7557 t1_j9u71t1 wrote

Reply to Pueblo deputy awarded Purple Heart for injuries suffered during shooting of Richard Ward by Drablit

It's particularly telling that police forces try to mimic armed services awards. A real clue that they believe they are at war with the people they are supposedly serving. Continue to not hold murderers accountable for their actions and award them instead you're definitely not gonna see any change in police behavior.

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bubba7557 t1_j8irn6l wrote

Reply to TIFU by not telling my partner about my intimate life in the past by HereckMistwalker

Unless Sabrina has only slept with OP, there is high likelihood she's been in some contact with someone else she's fucked in her past. I don't see him freaking the fuck out about that. The problem I see here is Sabrina. She's not entitled to information about his past what so ever, so long has his behavior with her once they are together isn't negatively impacted by that past. So if he can be friends without letting the romantic shit linger in a disrespectful way to Sabrina it's really not her business where OPs dick once went. Now I think OP was generous by offering the full truth, he wasn't obligated to do so but he wanted to not have omissions between them and that's a good thing. The fact Sabrina can't handle OPs truth is again her fuck up not his, not Jake not Lena. I'm my opinion he should give Sabrina space, let her decide if her insecurities about him having friends with an intimate past, that he's willing to be honest about with her, is a deal breaker. If she can't handle who OP is she either 1 shouldn't ask and 2 shouldnt try to make him feel bad about her fear the he'll prefer them to her. Look how OP writes about all of them, he adores Sabrina and if she can't see that she's blinded by her own insecurity. He's hurt bad by losing these two close friends, and Sabrina's insecurity and jealousy is the root of that pain. The problem isn't anyone here but Sabrina.

My opinion, let her go, keep the friends. If she comes back maybe you all can set some very loose ground rules for a little while that let Sabrina feel like the past is the past and she doesn't need to worry about an intimate future between the friends. Or they should just fucking include her too and make a big happy intimate friendship group. What OP is suggested though, that's the thought process of someone that's been manipulated by the insecurities of another. I repeat, Sabrina is the only problem here. It doesn't sound like anyone else did anything wrong. Their past together makes one person uncomfortable so now all three of them have to suffer? F Sabrina.

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bubba7557 t1_j7zjxrp wrote

Reply to comment by ma2412 in Killer whale moms are still supporting their adult sons — and it's costing them by RestSnorlax

Yeah it wasn't great. BUT I also was making some poor choices. I had turned down college scholarship offers and didn't apply to college because I didn't want to leave the city where my gf lived. Instead I'd gotten a job at a steel mill and was spending most of my time smoking weed and working. My mom's rationale was, you don't want to go to college fine, but I'm not paying for your housing. You have a job, go be a real man if you think that's the life you want. I did that for about a year and realized real work, real bills, real life was damn hard and I'd rather be back in college where it was reading books and parties even if it was far from that gf I had. So in a year I went back to college and my mom graciously began helping me with housing bills again so I could focus on school. A little bit of a harsh lesson but it pointed me where I needed to go. I just needed a year of being stubborn to figure that out myself.

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bubba7557 t1_j7xxsse wrote

Reply to comment by PsychologicalTear899 in Killer whale moms are still supporting their adult sons — and it's costing them by RestSnorlax

My mother did not support this strategy at all. I was given the boot shortly after hs graduation by coming home from work one day to find a greasy smoking guy whitewashing my bedroom walls and telling me my mom had rented out my room to him, my stuff was in the garage. Orca moms need that greasy smoking guy

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bubba7557 t1_j55orq7 wrote

Reply to George Santos disputes taking $3,000 intended for disabled veteran's dying dog by Forever_Overthinking

Here is his problem for the rest of his public life. He lied about so much and has admitted to lying about a lot so no matter what scandal comes up next or ever in the future no one will believe him, even if he's actually telling the truth. I honestly don't understand how Trump has managed to keep a political career with that exact same strategy but I guess if you ascend to cult leader the amount of lying no longer matters. Santos is no cult leader though so the pile of lies he sleeps on will always overshadow anything else he says, truth or not. Example, all of us here are pretty sure he's lying about this but really we don't know. We're extrapolating the most likely truth from his previous actions and assuming he's the liar not the vet. I read a lot more about this yesterday and I actually think the vet guy with the dog isn't exactly a trustworthy source either based on a couple of his self reported actions in this whole whacko story, but I do think his account rings more true than Santos. If I took the exact same story though and applied against someone I thought was honest, I might be more inclined to believe the politician account. I'm sure a ton of my interpretation of that individual story is colored by the fact I believe Santos is a habitual liar and con man, so the easiest explanation is this is just another example of that.

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