You are hurting this much because you made up that whole idea of you two together. You kinda did is to yourself. You can't really know anything unless you try and since you two never been together you really can't know that she is the one and that you were meant to grow old. I've been through it all. It's different once you date and then once you move in together and sometimes you see some things that your partner does that you don't like.
My advice is to don't be close to them for a while. Focus on something else. Date. Learn more about nes people and if they like you back then imagine things cuz then you can do that together. It's better.
celestina047 t1_j6mgft2 wrote
Reply to I [M22] have fallen in love with someone [F22] who doesn't feel the same way about me, and It hurts. I don't know what to do. I need advice. by Dummkopf_Idiot
You are hurting this much because you made up that whole idea of you two together. You kinda did is to yourself. You can't really know anything unless you try and since you two never been together you really can't know that she is the one and that you were meant to grow old. I've been through it all. It's different once you date and then once you move in together and sometimes you see some things that your partner does that you don't like.
My advice is to don't be close to them for a while. Focus on something else. Date. Learn more about nes people and if they like you back then imagine things cuz then you can do that together. It's better.