I think I've damaged one controller from anger, when I was in my late teens. I don't remember what game it was, just that I threw the controller to the ground, watched it bounce once, and then had little pieces of plastic jiggling inside and never truly worked after that. And I've always had to buy my own extra controllers so it hurt more.

I primarily play coop games and it can get bad. But I try and stay on games that have a mute feature so I don't have to listen to the various random people spew into the microphone.