dancing_chinese_kid
dancing_chinese_kid t1_je5xsqp wrote
Reply to Big moth by LocalAd2585
big moth strikes again
dancing_chinese_kid t1_iyejord wrote
Reply to My girlfriend [26F] still text her situationship of 4 months but when I [24M] confronted her she said it's okay because they never slept together or do intimate stuff. by Tasty_Ad6111
Is she spending time alone with him? Is she hiding her conversations with him? Does she talk about her relationship with you with him?
I think the idea of telling her to cut him entirely out of her life is out of line, but there should be very open conversations about what their relationship is. What does HE want the relationship to be?
dancing_chinese_kid t1_iujnxj4 wrote
"Enough" is the amount that keeps everyone involved happy.
Could be 1x/day, 1x/week, 1x/month, or 1x/year.
Never compare your relationship or sex life to anyone else's. Seek joy with your partner.
dancing_chinese_kid t1_iuik1qu wrote
Reply to comment by DisMyLik8thAccount in How To Tactfully Tell Him His Messy Room Is A Turn Off? by DisMyLik8thAccount
I'm married to my HS sweetheart and sleeping in the same clean bed every night. Nothing personal to take from it. :)
dancing_chinese_kid t1_iuijpo4 wrote
Reply to Boyfriend accidentally saw new messages from stalker ex and questioned why I don't have him blocked by Ok_Satisfaction_3828
Understandable from both of your perspectives. You know yourself, but your boyfriend isn't you so it would be natural to wonder what the motivation was to not continue to block the ex.
dancing_chinese_kid t1_iuiefsd wrote
Reply to comment by DisMyLik8thAccount in How To Tactfully Tell Him His Messy Room Is A Turn Off? by DisMyLik8thAccount
You don't know he'll end up alone because of how messy his place is. For all you know he'll meet a woman tomorrow who doesn't care and they fall in love.
Tell him you want a cleaner place all you want, though, but this idea that you're doing him a favor is silly.
dancing_chinese_kid t1_iuichjg wrote
Reply to comment by DisMyLik8thAccount in How To Tactfully Tell Him His Messy Room Is A Turn Off? by DisMyLik8thAccount
You don't know that will happen and you're not the authority. Speak only for yourself.
dancing_chinese_kid t1_iuibf5s wrote
>So my dilemma is, should I do him the favour of letting him know the reason I won't go back, or just stay polite and say nothing?
How is that a favor to him?
dancing_chinese_kid t1_jea2ij7 wrote
Reply to comment by mctoasterson in Big moth by LocalAd2585
>Came here to post this. I have no original thoughts, confirmed.
I was thinking of a post, but someone made the post
and heaven knows I'm miserable now