As a parent it's up to you to make it so that your kids appreciate what you do for them and later what their SO does for them.
It is achievable and personally gratefulness is the single most important value I want my children to know and feel, so that they can always be grateful towards who deserves it but also feel if someone is not being grateful to them when they should.
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Reply to Kids realize what you did for them and appreciate it once they have kids of their own. Spouses or SOs don’t realize or appreciate it until you’re gone. by Yourfaceis-23
As a parent it's up to you to make it so that your kids appreciate what you do for them and later what their SO does for them.
It is achievable and personally gratefulness is the single most important value I want my children to know and feel, so that they can always be grateful towards who deserves it but also feel if someone is not being grateful to them when they should.