eyecicey

eyecicey t1_jac76tx wrote

Look the answer is no you shouldn't but of course you should

Even if you both agree not to discuss the past which is very difficult , if you meet someone later who new her back then and they say something like "ooh man you should have seen her in college " it's going to grind on you all over again.

Our past helps shape us , good or bad.

I mean has she cheated on anyone before , did she use protection before , what's her stance on abortion .... All things you should know and she should know about you and unfortunately sexual history is one of them.

Now this doesn't have to be a one hit conversation but as you date certainly things you should understand.

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eyecicey t1_iuia0v4 wrote

So if she is attracted and attached why is it she does not want a relationship with him , is it only because at the moment he is saying no

That woman has no respect for you and refuses to do anything about it. I imagine trust has to be damaged.

I don't see how this relationship of yours is going to work continuing this way.

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eyecicey t1_iuhnq8m wrote

You can't really go wrong slowly moving out of your comfort zone with this guy , he is just super happy he is getting some and quite frankly even if you screw it up he will still be over the moon.

Perfect guy to improve your game with

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eyecicey t1_iqyfe09 wrote

That family time one comes for many

I imagine so many 50 + year olds slowing up on work and realising their kids are grown and don't have time for them because of their life.

So they missed out on so much when they were young and then it's too late.

Not many people die wishing if only they could have worked more.

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