Honestly I’m very familiar with the difficulty of finding friends in Boston as an adult, but the way you categorized everyone in Boston gave me a massive pause.
No, not everyone in Boston fits in those 5 categories. If that’s really your view you either have a lot of prejudice about people or you don’t invest enough effort/time into getting to know people or accepting who they are. Either way it’s sounds like the work starts with yourself.
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Honestly I’m very familiar with the difficulty of finding friends in Boston as an adult, but the way you categorized everyone in Boston gave me a massive pause.
No, not everyone in Boston fits in those 5 categories. If that’s really your view you either have a lot of prejudice about people or you don’t invest enough effort/time into getting to know people or accepting who they are. Either way it’s sounds like the work starts with yourself.