gerbalinmybutthole
gerbalinmybutthole t1_izfetn3 wrote
Reply to I’m Online Therapist, Claudia Delgado, LCSW. I work with Women that are having an Affair - Emotional or Physical. AMA. by Claudia-Delgado-LCSW
Op, do you believe that cheating is a mistake or a choice?
Do you help women understand the difference between guilt, and remorse?
Do you believe affair fog is real?
Do you explain to these women that they made their husband a second choice or they became a backup plan by having the affair?
Do you tell women that the other betrayed spouse if there is one should be notified by her the wayward?
Do you believe that a man dealing with a cheating wife should offer consequences to their actions if they want to reconcile? Examples would be, removal of all social media, giving the husband full access to usernames and passwords and phone at any time, tracking apps or devices, keylogger programs, removing friends who were supportive of the affair, letting family members know of the affair to build a support system, postnuptial agreement, etc.
I tend to tell men to automatically file for divorce, as they can stop the divorce process at anytime if they choose to reconcile. I also tell men to ask for a hall pass in some instances for reconciliation.
What are your thoughts on this?
gerbalinmybutthole t1_izfsmp2 wrote
Reply to comment by Claudia-Delgado-LCSW in I’m Online Therapist, Claudia Delgado, LCSW. I work with Women that are having an Affair - Emotional or Physical. AMA. by Claudia-Delgado-LCSW
Thank you, very insightful. If you did not you may want to post on supportforwaywards. As you may be able to pickup some clients from there. Most of them are working towards reconciliation. Your support may be beneficial to some. Keep up the great work.