The whole purpose of this post is to avoid the person even if they're the only option, so them being the only option is fine, you'll go without and deal with things alone

8 year relationship would have me wishing success upon the person whether they wronged me or cheated. I think through growth we can all get there but 8 years is a long time. My last relationship was 10 years and I broke things off from my end and still really wish her the best although there was no cheating or anything

I could only see the hip after reading this