Yeah, haute cuisine is not appropriate for a wedding. It’s really tempting to look at all this food and pick the dishes that you personally like, but I always keep in mind would my grandmother eat this and would she enjoy it and have enough food. Wedding are only really remembered for their food and any drama, and a lack of food is only going to creat a lot of hungry and drunk guests.

I think she’s a fantastic writer. Did a book swap a good few years ago where a colleague introduced me to John le Carré and and I Robin Hobb to him.

Seems like people don’t get your ironic use of nice guy. I got what you meant though.

Your twenties are for making these stupid mistakes and growing from them. Apologise, but don’t go over board with it. Say sorry that you were being dumb and just move on. You’ll either stay friends or go your separate ways. Keep it light and breezy, and hopefully that’ll alleviate some of the tension