We broke up even though loving each other more than anything. At some point it made solving other arguments/issues impossible. It came down to not agreeing on having a child thus it didn't matter if we solved it since our futures didn't match. We slowly and painfully drifted apart trying to solve the unsolvable which led to some trauma and wounds. I'd suggest thinking clearly about it and decide if either can compromise. It might be best to part ways before the attachment grows and makes everything harder.
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We broke up even though loving each other more than anything. At some point it made solving other arguments/issues impossible. It came down to not agreeing on having a child thus it didn't matter if we solved it since our futures didn't match. We slowly and painfully drifted apart trying to solve the unsolvable which led to some trauma and wounds. I'd suggest thinking clearly about it and decide if either can compromise. It might be best to part ways before the attachment grows and makes everything harder.