la_lupetta t1_j927vrf wrote on February 18, 2023 at 5:55 PM Reply to [Text] How do you fix your life in your 30s after wasting about 8 years unemployed and living with family by sleeplessbearr I think reading up about self sabotage can help you. It generally happens for one of several reasons including: *success is scary because if you get good, you may have to work harder *your self image is poor and succeeding at stuff would conflict with that which would feel uncomfortable These are just two, but I think they are more likely than some others based on what you've written. Good luck, and remember: the only time it's too late to take action is when you're dead. Permalink 1
la_lupetta t1_j927vrf wrote
Reply to [Text] How do you fix your life in your 30s after wasting about 8 years unemployed and living with family by sleeplessbearr
I think reading up about self sabotage can help you. It generally happens for one of several reasons including:
*success is scary because if you get good, you may have to work harder
*your self image is poor and succeeding at stuff would conflict with that which would feel uncomfortable
These are just two, but I think they are more likely than some others based on what you've written.
Good luck, and remember: the only time it's too late to take action is when you're dead.