queensg28

queensg28 t1_ixx1abl wrote

Because everything for Women is connected. It's all internal. Anus, pelvic floor, vagina, uretha. It's all connected. Like a web. If one part of the web is too weak or its hurt (like after having a baby), it impacts the other connected strands.

For guys, it's external and separate. Less connections. Penis and uretha is separate from testicles which are separate from anus. Also, not having babies sitting on a bladder 9months and not having to push anything out is a big factor too lol

A common fear women have during birth is that they'll poo on the table. It's actually encouraged by health professionals because if you're pushing enough to feel that sensation, you're using the right muscles and pushing the right way. Again - all connected.

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queensg28 t1_iuju7xd wrote

Just do loads of research. Loads. Research headlines like "xyz charity fined..." etc. Also, you can join Facebook groups for the specific thing you're wanting to donate to - autism, etc. And ask for stories of people helped by that specific charity.

Side note, Saint Judes Hospital is a really, really good cause and all profits go directly to the hospital. They take care of kids with cancer regardless of what their parents can afford.

Whatever you decide, whoever you decide to donate to, this is a really good thing you're doing. Don't let the logistics get in the way of that. God bless!

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queensg28 t1_iu77ulq wrote

High yield savings account for the deposit unless you're going to spend all of it immediately upon receipt. And you're actually losing money leaving that $10K in a checking account with inflation. Open accounts with capital one. One checking for expenses. One high yield savings for the bulk of those funds. Transfer between the accounts as needed. And you can connect Zelle to transfer between chase and cap one.

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