rachelcp
rachelcp t1_iyttae6 wrote
Reply to comment by imnotsoho in Park gutters built from 1800s gravestones in San Francisco by old_gold_mountain
Hopefully but it doesn't seem that way, do you have a source?
Just skimmed the article and they were talking about the reasoning being due to the gravesite being an unsightly waste of space, they also mentioned all those who didn't have loved ones being moved to mass graves.
I couldn't find any mention of replacing the headstones though I might have missed it but i doubt that anyone who would disrespect that many dead by moving them to a mass grave would also use the time and money to carve them brand new headstones.
rachelcp t1_iyt7b0v wrote
Reply to comment by old_gold_mountain in Park gutters built from 1800s gravestones in San Francisco by old_gold_mountain
That's so messed up. Just because people don't know you specifically doesn't mean you don't deserve to be found and known by others.
rachelcp t1_j2cj2a4 wrote
Reply to TIFU by reconnecting with my EX girlfriend by Ltislande
You had a girlfriend and you decided to secretly visit an ex alone? How did you think this was going to turn out?
If you have a girlfriend you don't start bringing up old flings. And you definitely don't visit them alone, especially definitely not "because of all the memories you have together" and you definitely DEFINITELY don't secretly go to their house. If for some reason you absolutely must see an ex i.e someones going to die or lose a lot of money not we missed each other, then you bring others and you try to meet in public.
The moment you noticed your ex had messaged you and you decided not to even mention it to your soon to be ex is the moment you really fucked up.
If you were to rewind time and do things the right way around it would be something like this
Ex messages you
Hey babe my ex just messaged me. weird.
Oh what did she say?
She seems all depressed and shit. I think maybe we could get a few friends together and invite her to the arcade or something to cheer her up. (I.e not her house and not alone)
Is she suicidal, mourning or is someone in the hospital?
Nah
I love how much you care about others but she'll be fine, tell her that you've got a girlfriend now.
Txt to ex: hey I'm sorry you're going through a hard time but I've got a girlfriend you can't just keep texting me like this. I hope you find a good therapist and friends that get you through this.