Thank you. Fucking thank you.

Yeah I did google and that never came up.

And that’s not even an English word.

You know there’s such thing as reading and comprehension. If you didn’t understand what I meant you can just say that

And it just means the unnatural order of things. it doesn’t specifically mean a parent who has lost a child.

AND there’s literally a petition to get it into the dictionary.

I did google.

Now this has me thinking.

How do we know it’s natural or what was intended I guess.

I do not believe in god.

so I’m not asking what he wanted lol

But couldn’t that just be because of the circumstances— you know. Like they didn’t have healthcare like we do now. and the life expectancy was much shorter.

I mean they say a mother has hormones that make her think her baby is cute so we don’t just abandon them— so we take care of them basically.

Oh my god. My heads just going everywhere.

Apparently there’s a petition to get it into the dictionary

That just means against the natural order of things.

There’s no technical term in the English language.

And isn’t it just something that’s natural. Which brings me back to losing a parent before a child is the natural way of things so there’s no word for it?

I know what they meant. But isn’t that definition the same?

That’s what bachelor and bachelorette are for.

What? It describes a man or woman whose spouse has died and they haven’t remarried.

You are not a widow/er just because you haven’t married.

My dads 64 and he’s my entire world. Besides my daughter. (He used to say I was his favorite, don’t tell my twin sister though, and now he says my daughter is— but like I know even though he calls and I answer and he’s like ‘oh. Hey wheres kp’ like my four year old will answer MY PHONE, he loves me the most. So it’s whatever) like he’s literally everything.

I honestly don’t know how I’ll survive. and he’s got health issues and I’m scared he’s not telling me so I don’t worry.

But what about with widows and stuff? that was pretty common too.

And a person with two hands is called ambidextrous. Doesn’t it mean having two hands, having two hands that work equally well, etc

But I absolutely love what you said.

Even though it’s sad. but you know what I mean.

I mean it’s unnatural for a parent to outlive their children. Like … they’re born after us. like in that sense.

like it was never intended for a parent to live longer than their kid. Even if it did happen— it wasn’t supposed to.

Does that make sense?

there are so many new places and ways to …dispose of our dead.

That sounds awful.

We have other options rather than just burying our dead.

Huh?

I feel like it’s down to every single person what they prefer.

I can do A PERFECT British accent in my head but I cannot do one with my actual voice.

Surely if your brother went missing, your she’s was checked when the police came.