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susgodtraplord t1_ja8dcff wrote

Reply to comment by SallysRocks in My [24F] roommate [23F] has been gone from our apartment for 2.5 months and randomly texted me she’s coming back this week - beyond annoyed by [deleted]

I’m seeing someone who doesn’t know how to read because that’s literally what I said lmao??? I’d be annoyed as fuck by roomie, I would’ve moved out on my own the first month. At least I pay my own rent and make my own rules, if wanting my space and my stuff to myself makes me spoiled alright call me Paris Hilton 💀

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susgodtraplord t1_ja8amxt wrote

Reply to comment by SallysRocks in My [24F] roommate [23F] has been gone from our apartment for 2.5 months and randomly texted me she’s coming back this week - beyond annoyed by [deleted]

Sorry, you wouldn’t be annoyed? A whole grown ass spoiled adult has her daddy pay her rent and decides when she can waltz in and out at will as well as have access to OP’s stuff because DaDdY pAiD fOr It? Absolutely not lmao I would’ve moved out in a month

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susgodtraplord t1_iujcnqr wrote

Reply to comment by mganga_mzungu in how do I(21f) tell my mum why I am not picking up the phone by mganga_mzungu

Does your school have a mental health resources office? If you get health insurance through the school, you may be able to recieve mental health care through your uni, or even perhaps find a local therapist that would accept your insurance. I totally get the time constraints- that sounds really tough. Maybe an online WFH job could give you what you need? Something simple like data entry from home or secretarial work that would still give you time to do your schoolwork.

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susgodtraplord t1_iuj0zzf wrote

Reply to how do I(21f) tell my mum why I am not picking up the phone by mganga_mzungu

Your post says to me that you were bullied into being the “mediator” in every conflict and forced to compromise your feelings for the sake of someone else’s all the time. This reads like you’ve been manipulated to believe that unless you act and speak perfectly when voicing a concern, those concerns are invalid and don’t deserve to be heard. Your whole family sounds like absolute trash, from what you’ve described. If I were you, I’d seek therapy and take some time away from those who work to drag you into toxic patterns.

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susgodtraplord t1_iuikdtk wrote

Reply to Don’t go to Stanza dei Sigari if you don’t want to be roofied. It happened to my fiancé after we talked to a guy for hours and i turned my head for one second, next moment my fiancé says she doesn’t feel ok and asks to leave and starts stumbling by [deleted]

You’re being downvoted because frankly your story sounds untrue. Or at least you’re leaving something out. You felt uncomfortable going to law enforcement because of rude bar management??? You felt uncomfortable going to get tested at a hospital??? Either y’all are the most avoidant people on the planet or this didn’t happen.

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