thatjewboy
thatjewboy t1_j29rm3f wrote
Reply to comment by Willem_the_Silent in TIFU by turning down a guy I really liked because of my anxiety and now I can’t stop regretting it by babysharkso
meaning...
thatjewboy t1_j29rir1 wrote
Reply to comment by gsc187 in TIFU by turning down a guy I really liked because of my anxiety and now I can’t stop regretting it by babysharkso
she said they didn't share contact info.
thatjewboy t1_j29rfk2 wrote
Reply to comment by dantodd in TIFU by turning down a guy I really liked because of my anxiety and now I can’t stop regretting it by babysharkso
you're projecting.
thatjewboy t1_j28w2rn wrote
Reply to TIFU by turning down a guy I really liked because of my anxiety and now I can’t stop regretting it by babysharkso
Inclined to agree with others here. I've (29m) made similar decisions in my past, mostly when I was around your age, and found later that it was because I had missed something about their personality and my subconscious caught me. Usually they'd display manipulative behaviours or neuroticism or something similar.
Like others have said, if by chance you actually did turn down a really good guy, it implies there's something about yourself that you're uncertain of or don't feel comfortable with and this gives you the opportunity to work on that/those trait(s) to avoid a repeat in the future.
Either way, try looking at this as a positive. It's a chance for growth. Wishing you the best.
thatjewboy t1_j63p2az wrote
Reply to TIFU By asking my girlfriends mum if they eat dogs in China by [deleted]
"TIFU by making a weird joke that everyone laughed at and nothing actually got FU."