Lets apply this to sustainability vs endless growth, then you’ll have my upvote.

I like both. For a song to stand the test of time for me, it needs great musicality and anything but ignorant lyrics.

I can listen to great lyrics in a simple song and enjoy it.

I can also hear ignorant or problematic lyrics in an otherwise fantastic song (musically) and the bad lyrics will cause me to walk away from the song over time.

I like both. For a song to stand the test if time for me, it needs great musicality and anything but ignorant lyrics.

I can listen to great lyrics in a simple song and enjoy it.

I can also hear ignorant or problematic lyrics in an otherwise fantastic song (musically) and the bad lyrics will cause me to walk away from the song over time.

We are equally trod on.

And full of poison element traces.

Ohh i totally am.

I honestly dont think you know what a complaint is.

LoL as we debate this in a public forum.

careful going outside with that thin skin friend. The wind might take you in two.

Your really mad I proposed an alternative huh?

LoL i made one comment suggesting you can live without it if you cant set it up.

All the other comments and opinions are answering comments. To be honest, I was all set with the one comment till you needed clarifications of your own.

Cool. Selfie. Done. Back to our moment.

Allot of people feel like they need to record these moments. You don’t! We haven’t been for thousands of years actually.

I find the expectations to be more rude.

I honestly feel that way. Both our engagement and our wedding were personal, just between my wife and myself. It cost next to nothing amd we took a killer vacation afterwards and used the money we would have spent to down pay on our home.

We feel very smart and enjoy the memories immensely. Though to be fair, we did have a photographer for exactly 2 hour for the wedding ceremony.

People put allot into weddings largely to meet expectations set by media or family.

Do what YOU need to make it special, not what others need. If you need a video, go get it. We didnt.

They can! I was offering an alternative to this posts predicament.

I wouldnt stress about it. As someone who has neither a video of the engagement NOR the wedding, I can safely say I dont miss either of them.

What if I told you, you don’t necessarily need a video of all of your deepest and most personal memories.

Enjoy the moment.