Honestly it sounds like you shouldn’t be together. Not to be that redditor that’s like “ break up immediately” but it seems like what both of y’all want don’t align. He’s probably embarrassed that you out earn him which could be why he lied about his salary. From what I’ve read it sounds like you want someone who’s career oriented or a high earner, you should look for someone like that. He doesn’t seems to be that and there’s no use to try to coach him into it.
univornpineapple t1_j6nvb6n wrote
Reply to Boyfriend (M 28) earns less than me (F 26) and is not being honest about his finances. We have been together for over a year. by [deleted]
Honestly it sounds like you shouldn’t be together. Not to be that redditor that’s like “ break up immediately” but it seems like what both of y’all want don’t align. He’s probably embarrassed that you out earn him which could be why he lied about his salary. From what I’ve read it sounds like you want someone who’s career oriented or a high earner, you should look for someone like that. He doesn’t seems to be that and there’s no use to try to coach him into it.