varashu

varashu t1_iuk9f6c wrote

I wouldn't say shit simply because the parents probably aren't monsters but desperate and blinded by what they want so they're not exactly rational.

Sounds like they've already tried speaking to your gf and that they couldn't come to terms.

I would pretend the lunch didn't happen. No need to further soil your gf's relationship with her parents or your relationship with her parents.

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