To each their own. hypocrisy is a deal breaker - if he was a known philanderer, good for him; but if he’s saying one thing and doing another, I’m on the wife’s side in the original story (with this NDA one, don’t know enough to have an opinion)

I love these shoes (I had a different cut and colour), but best pair of shoes I’ve ever had.

Good post.

Not to burst your bubble, nobody wants to open a cafe or farm commercially. Even as a hobby, it requires a lot of money to buy tools, fertiliser, pesticides, soil, gravel, cuttings, seeds and so on. To your premise, without work - a relaxing hobby to while away time isn’t as exciting, it’s more a distraction and discipline, akin to a coping mechanism.

I think you’d be surprised how little people would want to work for others given full freedom to do so.