It's not about me yes, I'm just saying I hope op doesn't put every male out there as sexist, cuz there are a lot of people that are generally nice, so I hope she just don't go massive hate spree on every male. Never have I make it about me.

I also try to give op an solution, to just ignore the comments, and plays. I am sorry if the comment appear not the way it is intended.

Open task manager, sort them by ram. Look at the top few that's not part of your system, and close them. Worse case just reopen them when you are done.

That being said, out of curiosity, what are you installing? What software need 8GB of ram to install.

Ouch I hope you don't generalize every male as them. They are toxic, but I also know a bunch of non toxic one that at most just call you dogwater(given they do that to guys as well).

I'm pretty sure I'm not the only male that find them cringy, but they exist, so best you can do is ignore them.