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vivivivivistan t1_jaerhbd wrote

If you feel like being around them makes you worse in some way (your mood, sucks all the fun out of something, makes you feel bad, etc.) then they're probably toxic.

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RxstySp00ns OP t1_jaeroms wrote

I think ur right but we have good times too. Idk if i should talk to them about their "jokes"

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zTomer t1_jaes5dw wrote

If you tell them you don't appreciate when they joke about XYZ, and they continue to joke about XYZ with you... they're toxic and lack respect for you as a friend.

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LeadershipTrue8164 t1_jaeuf8z wrote

Or making you believe that your complaints are wether ridiculous or even hurtful towards them … they are not joking .. they are toxic!

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RxstySp00ns OP t1_jaesksc wrote

thank you for the advice :) i think i will this week

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LeadershipTrue8164 t1_jaeuky8 wrote

Toxic people will always give you amazingly good times between the abuse… they want you

  1. to stay
  2. second guessing yourself
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LadyBugTango t1_jaev0zl wrote

True story ☝️ learn to never second guess yourself.

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