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alral1988 t1_jb144f1 wrote

Like telling someone with depression to just be happy.

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startwithaidea OP t1_jb14grj wrote

No one way is absolute outside of what has been said or done, you are not able to take back a feeling or thought so maybe 🤔?

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Garden_girlie9 t1_jb0z689 wrote

This is absurd. Anxiety changes peoples behaviour.

What a shitty motivational post

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redzinga t1_jb0zuns wrote

i was thinking about saying something similar, but maybe normals find this kind of stuff helpful?

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startwithaidea OP t1_jb0zxzb wrote

Agree, however the point is that by accepting it IMO, will or may allow you to move on to whatever is next. It is often hard to move on after a tough life situation whatever that might be, because we all different ways of dealing with things or accepting things.

A great example is people have a hard time accepting that anyone regardless of gender or race can do anything they want given the same chance, tools and encouragement. That’s hard for some because they or all they have set in there mind is a: living a life they couldn’t so now your living it through say the littles or b: there is always a winner or loser. That outcome is predetermined before the competition starts, and no matter how much anxiety or grief one has will change what is next. Because it has yet to happen ❤️

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devomke t1_jb11nzf wrote

You agree and yet you posted it?

Also your second paragraph is just straight bullshit …

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startwithaidea OP t1_jb11ttv wrote

Life isn’t about agreeing or disagreeing it’s acceptance and moving forward. Appreciate you and thanks for your thoughts 💭 ❤️

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Garden_girlie9 t1_jb15p68 wrote

You’ve never had a diagnosed anxiety disorder have you?

Totally insensitive and ridiculous quote.

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startwithaidea OP t1_jb1fcam wrote

Link for support: https://www.mentalhealthsf.org/six-simple-habits-that-defeat-anxiety/

Opening para:

When you acknowledge your anxious feelings, you take an important step toward feeling better. Facing the truth can be very empowering because once you name the problem you can go about solving it.

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Garden_girlie9 t1_jb1fqxm wrote

Lol. Just stop posting. You are making yourself look like an idiot.

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startwithaidea OP t1_jb1g15k wrote

Life isn’t both ways plus this is the internet and it goes a long ways to be accepting all around ❤️

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Garden_girlie9 t1_jb1640t wrote

“The outcome is predetermined before the competition starts and no matter how much anxiety or grief one has will change what is next”

Lmao what bullshit

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Zero_Burn t1_jb13nqt wrote

A...are you talking about predeterminism? That the future is set in stone and nothing we do can change it? Then what's the point of trying?

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startwithaidea OP t1_jb14614 wrote

When an event or action is in motion or has been determined for example the comments here, outside of yours. Nothing can change those and it would likely be very difficult to sway the opinions because they are predetermined. So if we accept it, what ever however you judge good or not so great, than maybe it’s easier to move forward with whatever challenges you might have

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mangomochamuffin t1_jb13gsh wrote

Whaha what a joke! I could have done things i didnt because of anxiety. Lmao. This is such bull.

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startwithaidea OP t1_jb1f3nr wrote

Link for support if you need it: https://www.mentalhealthsf.org/six-simple-habits-that-defeat-anxiety/

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mangomochamuffin t1_jb454jn wrote

I did not ask or even imply that i wanted a link to a 'fix'. So why even send one in the first place. Thats rude, thanks. You don't even know if i already have support, psychological help or whatever.

Anxiety is much more than 'six simple fixes'. You are a very insensitive person.

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Gym_goer65 t1_jb2btyr wrote

I think the aim of the post might be leaning towards stoicism. I’ve been trying to get into it recently as I got out of a relationship. The thoughts of “what ifs” really bring me anxiety. But the “what ifs” aren’t real fortunately and I just need to remember that

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