The really frustrating part is when you cant

Sometimes you do need to try harder, though.

Um, no. It’s called persistence. Try again until you get it right.

There's a point where you *must* re-examine your pattern.

That’s not what the text says. It says to try something different if it’s not working.

Yeah bro , if you can't get your life fixed then fucking quit and start a new life , easy !!

That's what I said too.