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venuswasaflytrap t1_j1f7yax wrote

Like if your wife is dying from an autoimmune disorder and you want to sleep with her friend, then do what you feel. It doesn't matter if your wife commits suicide over it, because if she minds then she doesn't matter.

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UniverseBear t1_j1fivw7 wrote

The sad reality is those who mind often do matter. Your boss, your coworkers, your clients. You have to pretend at least a little to fit into society.

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AllAboutTheProg t1_j1fpcle wrote

Not even a sad reality, just reality. And for good reason. Some people are shit and what they feel is negativity or hate and it’s better for everyone including themselves that they just keep it to themselves.

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IFoundTheCowLevel t1_j1e0jxe wrote

Did he actually say that though? Do you have a reference link?

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Mrrandom314159 t1_j1gi5j0 wrote

*assuming those who mind aren't violent or have power.

Then again, that's assuming you don't have allies who aren't willing to punch those who mind. And you do.

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FieryHammer t1_j1hgmue wrote

This is kind of a BS mentality as it’s borderline saying to surround yoursef with people who only support you. While you may feel validated, that can be dangerous and can make people lose the grip on reality. You need to be confronted, you need your opinion matched against others, that’s how progress works.

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an4x t1_j1epn50 wrote

Your confidence gives me strength!!!

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sylsau t1_j1hgqhu wrote

Be yourself because that is how you will be unique, and it is your uniqueness that will allow you to do great things in life. People don't want to see copies of successful people, they want to see what you have to offer that is unique.

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