Oh! I can't believe I forgot--it is so helpful to hear how you navigated the social pressures in your own life and how you decided to live life on your terms--yes, that included children but it wasn't b/c society told you to -- it's because you really wanted them in your life. (Obviously, only say this if it is true).

Hearing that others even those who "fit" into the traditional model are doing so because they WANT to and made purposeful decisions is really refreshing.