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yourock_rock t1_je57vhi wrote

Reply to comment by HelenEk7 in LPT: If a single friend of yours has said they don’t want children, don’t start asking them if they’ve changed their mind if/when they find a partner. by dubdoll

Please also don’t mention it to people with existing children. I have 1 child and cannot have anymore and get asked all the time when we’re having #2. Never. It’s very painful to get this question asked by complete strangers all the time.

Just don’t ask people about their fertility.

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Beazore t1_je6iz0p wrote

I hadn't thought of this before. Sending love 💛

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philbobalboa t1_je6yc0k wrote

We’re over 2 years into our fertility journey with our second kid. It blows my mind the number of people who think it’s okay to tell us “your daughter is getting old, you should really think about giving her a brother or sister”. Mind your own damn business!

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jawesome4321 t1_je7bp9q wrote

We had our daughter 10 months ago and people began hassling us on when we were going to have another after 1 month. I've started asking people if they're going to push the baby out of their vagina.

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deepndarkheart t1_je92sww wrote

The fudgecake people even have to do with anyone's homely, internal, personal, super personal matters? People are dumb. If anyone would ask me a question like that I'll not spare them any respect and go ballisitic with my tongue.

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