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FluorscopicFuck t1_iucze98 wrote

Reply to comment by ptlimits in LPT: Try to keep problems with you and your significant other between the two of you. by Pale_Perception_4927

My partner’s friend has to come talk to me? I can’t talk to my partner directly? That’s an issue. What kind of relationships are you people in??😬

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popejubal t1_iudnevy wrote

Almost all of the time, the couple has talked to each other, but they’ve run into an issue that they can’t resolve themselves.

Sometimes, one of the people in the couple doesn’t want to resolve the issue because they’re benefiting from it. It could be a huge issue or it could be something small like “she always does the dishes because she hits her limits of how much mess she can tolerate faster than I do.”

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ptlimits t1_iue1q66 wrote

Thank u. That's exactly it. At that point u have tried talking to each other. It's great to talk to ur friend for help but u can't take it 100% confidence til they know the whole story and I'm sorry but ur just not gonna get that from only one half the relationship.

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ptlimits t1_iue1h9r wrote

Obviously u also talk to ur partner first. But once ur taking an outside opinion seriously it's only fair for them to get both sides. Or find someone who is nuetral.

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