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rexmaster2 t1_ith3qoe wrote

Reply to comment by redderper in LPT: Watch how people react when they think you’re in a tough spot. People show their true colors when they think you have zero leverage. by [deleted]

The true moral of the story is, if u have no intention of honoring what u say to someone, then don't say it.

I have a neighbor who is similar. Call me whenbahe needs me, but can't be bothered to keep her word with me. She'll say, let's go out to lunch, meet up, ill be over later, ill call u tonight, and I get nothing from her. In most cases, it's because her (60) husband (70) won't let her leave the house once he is home. He wants no one in the house. Well, except for his gf, of course.

In cases like this, it's all about control. Nothing more.

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redderper t1_ithctak wrote

I just feel sad for women who are being controlled/abused by their husbands. Not keeping your promise is definitely shitty, but she's a victim of the situation as well and she might not be able to escape that situation so easily.

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rexmaster2 t1_ithjfm4 wrote

Sadly, some don't want to escape but continue to complain about their situation. The number one reason why they stay...."but I love him".

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