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Environmental-Sock52 t1_j29i0ir wrote

Firstly, don't use or think of terms like "get laid".

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[deleted] OP t1_j29of9f wrote

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Environmental-Sock52 t1_j29pwg3 wrote

Yes agree on the stomach. I feel like the dudes that distribute this type of advice and the guys that seek it, aren't really benefiting from it anyway, if you know what I mean.

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Absurdityindex t1_j2a45yi wrote

Is flirting and hitting on someone two different things?

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HelloS0n t1_j2b484y wrote

Flirting usually happens naturally. Flirting is being fun, being coy in your interactions, leaving the other partying wanting more and reciprocating these things. Hitting on someone is usually a one-way street.

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dbptwg t1_j29yzcg wrote

Guys really just don't get it. Girls pay attention to hygiene, posture, clothes, language and so many will instantly and permanently friendzone people for things like "get laid". If they spent time talking with girls instead just sexualizing, maybe they would understand what was happening around them.

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Relevant_Monstrosity t1_j2a1wq3 wrote

My point is that one who may be considered a creep must accept rejection and move on; not stalk or harass.

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Relevant_Monstrosity t1_j29j8e3 wrote

"First, don't be a man"

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PrisonerV t1_j29lyav wrote

Second, don't be a condescending asshat to people.

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RabbitStewAndStout t1_j2ciy2r wrote

Man here, I don't think in terms of "getting laid", and to argue that "it's just nature" is to also argue that humans are incapable of being civilized, which is observably wrong.

People need "How to Read Social Cues for Dummies", not "How to Creep Without The Label"

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