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marybeemarybee t1_j2d9gru wrote

I used to be a therapist, and I’ve never heard of that. Depending on what’s going on, that could be very bad advice.

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labchick6991 t1_j2d1le9 wrote

So, back to EverQuest it is!!! Pretty sure they still have servers running somewhere…

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Seppdizzle t1_j2d3bvy wrote

Hell yeah EQ! Loved that game

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BaronVonNumbaKruncha t1_j2d94my wrote

Years after I quit I was talking with a guy and found out he was part of the guild I had started back in the first days of the game, and it had grown massive. It was such a strange thought to find something I made in a virtual world went on to grow up and have it's own life without me.

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imregrettingthis t1_j2dbbob wrote

Lol. If you’re friends problem was solved by a trip their relationship was not going to end anyways.

Also I’m a little suspicious at how you know what marriage counselors will suggest ok average. Can I ask how you know this info?

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sdforbda t1_j2d34b2 wrote

"things don't seem to be working out, we should probably take a trip" is terrible advice

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Uranus_Hz t1_j2d36m9 wrote

Good thing we aren’t living paycheck to paycheck and have money, and paid vacation time, so we can take a trip to save our marriage.

Of course, if we weren’t living paycheck to paycheck in the first place there’d be so much less stress and tension in our marriage that a counselor and vacation wouldn’t be necessary.

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jfVigor t1_j2den79 wrote

Sounds like you found your answer

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DroolingSlothCarpet t1_j2d5m0n wrote

>one of the first things a counselor will suggest

After 5,236 suggestions sure, this being suggestion number 854 could be called one of the first.

This post is nonsense.

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Searchingforgoodnews t1_j2dkz4q wrote

I watch a lot of Forensic Files and Crime Watch Daily and I know a bunch of women who were murdered on a trip like this. The husbands always suggest it. I don't encourage anyone to do it, but that show made me paranoid.

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keepthetips t1_j2d1fas wrote

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BaephBush t1_j2dj5oy wrote

What counselor told you that?

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ptrckl t1_j2dkiz0 wrote

Lemme just trespass onto my high school campus...

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madamlemon t1_j2dob3d wrote

We used to hike trails that have long since been demolished /paved over for road expansion.

My marriage is doomed. :(

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religionlies2u t1_j2dr514 wrote

Yes, when we had a rocky time in our marriage our therapist made us play a game where we had to write down what it was like when we first met (couldn’t go back physically bc it was very far), where we were, what attracted us to them etc. It really did help us reconnect and focus on what we originally liked about each other. She said it helps a lot to clear the mind of all the petty things that built up in a marriage over time and reset the brain to remember why/what you liked about this person in the first place.

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GrimReader710 t1_j2e224k wrote

What if your no longer allowed within 500ft of a school??

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