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CreamPyre t1_j8jxbu6 wrote

Just ghost them. Nothing wrong with that. You owe nobody an explanation either

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mdlynch t1_j8jxnl5 wrote

This. Literally just walk away. Stop talking to them, stop interacting with them, remove them on any social media. Do not engage if you see them in public.

I had to do this with a toxic ex recently, and it's literally as simple as telling yourself "I'm not doing this anymore" and being done with them.

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papaia27 t1_j8jygow wrote

Thank you, I’ve tried but I can’t help to think that they’re resenting me… I know it’s selfish

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boredlady819 t1_j8k0ush wrote

It doesn’t matter if they resent you. Make peace with your needs first and foremost. You don’t owe anybody anything.

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AdNew2999 t1_j8k1bf2 wrote

That’s kinda the point, if they’re negative people and they have negative thoughts about you (double negative) that’s good

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