dsarma t1_j7p3juv wrote
The thing about crime in Newark, especially violent crime and such, is that it's not really involving random people on the street. It's between people who know each other and have beef with each other. With most cities, you can reduce the crime rate with education and community outreach. However, when it's your cousin being a punk, no amount of community outreach is going to prevent the dumb fuck from stirring up a fight.
You remember how there was all that talk about stranger danger in the 1990s? And then you looked at statistics, and saw that the vast VAST majority of kidnapping, molestation, rape, etc was done by people that the child already knew, and that there wasn't this huge mess of strangers eager to steal some punk ass kid? That's the deal with violent crime in Newark. Nobody is going to jump you for your discount Nike shoes, and GAP Outlet jeans. They don't give a crap.
What will happen is that people will solve their issues with fists instead of words, but that doesn't really involve innocent bystanders. If you're generally a good person, people will leave you alone. I'm a skinny gay dude swanning about the neighbourhood, and nobody gives a fuck, because I mind my own business, and keep it moving.
EDIT: If you leave your bike locked up to something with a cheap ass chain, it's going to get jacked. Keep an eye on your crap, and you'll be fine. Also, be friendly to the unhoused people hanging around. They're not going to bother you, but an acknowledgement of "good morning" or something isn't going to hurt you. The most that someone will ask is if you can spare a buck or two for a coffee or if someone can bum a cigarette. A simple, "sorry, I'm out, but good luck" will go far. Your kindness is rewarded with information, like "Hey, that door over there is locked right now. Try that next one over," and everyone around there keeps an eye on you to make sure nobody's bothering you.
AdRevolutionary8544 t1_j7pcs1r wrote
Yeah no one really bothers you if you say “sorry I don’t have anything to give you”. There was one guy who asked me 3 times in 3 days on the same block lol. I was like “you should probably know by now I don’t have change”
dsarma t1_j7q7lq7 wrote
In the cases where I see the same people at the same spots, I’ll frequently grab like a wrapped cookie or something, and give it to the person. “Hey, I don’t have cash, but I have a cookie if you want?” Usually met with a smile.
OpportunityPlayful70 t1_j7q32ha wrote
I don’t see anything I disagree with here
dsarma t1_j7q7bfl wrote
Thanks. The downvotes got me thinking I was going crazy. 😆
OpportunityPlayful70 t1_j7qaa6w wrote
Nah m, you’re on point.
As a person who’s been on both sides of the fence in my multiple lives on this earth (not proud of it), I can attest that Newark is mostly a “mind your business” city.
Obviously you need to have street smarts and situational awareness, but most of the violent crime is done to gang members/street people against other gang members & street people.
That’s not to say that innocent people aren’t victims of crime and random acts of violence or thievery… but that’s usually done by desperate people like crackheads.
The neighborhood’s robbing crews are usually robbing other drug dealers & people they think have some real money. The neighborhood shooters are usually shooting at people they perceive a threat or already shot at one of their own.
The people snatching women’s purses or robbing innocent people for their phones are usually drug addicts, homeless people or young kids who are generally considered “crumbs” in the underworld. Crimes against civilians civilians brings police aka “makes shit hot”.
Increased Police presence & patrols isn’t ever good for anyone who makes a living doing crime.
Look… I know shit happens to innocent people and I swear I’m not minimizing that at all… but minding your business goes a long way in the city & believe it or not there are some great blocks in what people call “bad neighborhoods”.
NefariousNaz t1_j7q3sy5 wrote
I'm a former Rutgers student and I regularly get emails about students being attacked and robbed while walking about.
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