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daymanahhhahhhhhh t1_ix3ie3b wrote

Reply to comment by Sad_Succotash_9347 in Family Court Fathers by [deleted]

There’s something you’re not telling us

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anotheronebytesdust t1_ix3oc0x wrote

Yeah I know a couple single moms who have full custody… because the dad literally didn’t try at all to get visitation or custody or anything. Everyone who I know who’s asked has received, if that makes sense.

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daymanahhhahhhhhh t1_ix3op5c wrote

Yeah if you fight for it and don’t have any red flags and can provide a nice apt or home then it’s not that hard to get 50/50. Some people are just shit dads and shit people with dodgy work history and criminal histories and then just want to blame in on the courts. People on social media love to offload the blame and not take responsibility.

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canibringmydog t1_ix40zir wrote

I know a dad who claimed their kid wasn’t biologically his and he still got partial custody. OP for sure isn’t telling us everything.

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Sad_Succotash_9347 t1_ix48cmr wrote

I asked for every weekend she fought it. I got every other and every Wed evening. Look above nothing to hide here 😭😭😭

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canibringmydog t1_ix4c0xc wrote

You can see why everyone is questioning your authenticity, though, right? Courts don’t give a wet fart about either parent, they’re looking for the best interest of the child. It defaults to 50/50 unless there are situations that call for another arrangement or the other parent doesn’t show up to dispute custody arrangements.

Either your not telling the entire truth, or you’re omitting things. Like you don’t have proper living situation/financial situation, you have a record, or you didn’t dispute the agreements but there is something, my dude.

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Sad_Succotash_9347 t1_ix48g1z wrote

I'm the plaintiff in any case we've been to court for. Meaning I've petitioned the courts for a change

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Sad_Succotash_9347 t1_ix487ab wrote

I've filed every motion in the courthouse. I've never been the defendant always the plaintiff. I work 60 plus hours a week. Own a home and have a safe and loving place for my daughter to lay her head at night. I don't have a criminal history. I don't even drink alcohol. If you can see my frustration with being granted every other weekend and Wednesday evenings maybe your just not all there

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Sad_Succotash_9347 t1_ix3ijpm wrote

I am an everyday guy. I work and come home. I have no criminal record. I've never been in trouble. I have nothing to hide. If I wanted to leave things out I would have not posted

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daymanahhhahhhhhh t1_ix3j0ez wrote

Sure.

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Sad_Succotash_9347 t1_ix3j35f wrote

Lmaooo whatever my friend. You're right you know it best.

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daymanahhhahhhhhh t1_ix3lk4h wrote

Lol you’re the one trying to pass off your experience as the universal one.

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Sad_Succotash_9347 t1_ix3mjqd wrote

Plenty of people on this thread who agree. Pretty sure it's you acting like your case is a universal outcome here!must be easier to get 50/50 from a custy

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daymanahhhahhhhhh t1_ix3ohpd wrote

And there are people here who don’t agree with you or have had the same experience. Meaning your experience isn’t the universal one, which is what I said earlier. Why is that so hard for you to understand?

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_CaesarAugustus_ t1_ix3qecm wrote

There have been some decent points made here. However, we’re walking dangerously close to some Red Pill shit, and that’s just not cool.

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daymanahhhahhhhhh t1_ix3rgiq wrote

Are you saying I’m on the verge of saying some red pill shit?

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_CaesarAugustus_ t1_ix3x2ru wrote

Not at all. I’m saying I agree with your assertion that personal anecdotes do not universal experiences make. Sorry, I may have been too vague. There are a lot of antagonistic themes in this post. Yours are not among them.

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