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anotheronebytesdust t1_ix3oc0x wrote

Reply to comment by daymanahhhahhhhhh in Family Court Fathers by [deleted]

Yeah I know a couple single moms who have full custody… because the dad literally didn’t try at all to get visitation or custody or anything. Everyone who I know who’s asked has received, if that makes sense.

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daymanahhhahhhhhh t1_ix3op5c wrote

Yeah if you fight for it and don’t have any red flags and can provide a nice apt or home then it’s not that hard to get 50/50. Some people are just shit dads and shit people with dodgy work history and criminal histories and then just want to blame in on the courts. People on social media love to offload the blame and not take responsibility.

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canibringmydog t1_ix40zir wrote

I know a dad who claimed their kid wasn’t biologically his and he still got partial custody. OP for sure isn’t telling us everything.

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Sad_Succotash_9347 t1_ix48cmr wrote

I asked for every weekend she fought it. I got every other and every Wed evening. Look above nothing to hide here 😭😭😭

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canibringmydog t1_ix4c0xc wrote

You can see why everyone is questioning your authenticity, though, right? Courts don’t give a wet fart about either parent, they’re looking for the best interest of the child. It defaults to 50/50 unless there are situations that call for another arrangement or the other parent doesn’t show up to dispute custody arrangements.

Either your not telling the entire truth, or you’re omitting things. Like you don’t have proper living situation/financial situation, you have a record, or you didn’t dispute the agreements but there is something, my dude.

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Sad_Succotash_9347 t1_ix48g1z wrote

I'm the plaintiff in any case we've been to court for. Meaning I've petitioned the courts for a change

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Sad_Succotash_9347 t1_ix487ab wrote

I've filed every motion in the courthouse. I've never been the defendant always the plaintiff. I work 60 plus hours a week. Own a home and have a safe and loving place for my daughter to lay her head at night. I don't have a criminal history. I don't even drink alcohol. If you can see my frustration with being granted every other weekend and Wednesday evenings maybe your just not all there

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