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Mountain_Bill5743 t1_iztoda4 wrote

Reply to comment by Chosen_one11 in How does everyone feel about Blackstone valley prep schools? by Chosen_one11

From a purely educational stand point, Lincoln, hands down.

Lincoln will most likely have a more stable, happier staff than a charter because the work life balance is much better. The teachers are more likely older and more experienced and more likely to stay as a presence in the school as your daughter ages (due to less turnover).

I would also talk to your daughter about how she feels about the school culture. A lot of charters have a heavy emphasis on compliance and college as a goal-- its just a different type of environment. There's nothing wrong with this, but they're very focused on numbers (since its the bread and butter of how charters market). For some kids, this feels kind of restrictive or might reduce intrinsic motivation to simply enjoy whatever their passions are.

I have no idea what the culture like is at Lincoln, but public schools (especially well achieving ones) don't usually have the pressure to prove anything. Charters have a certain pressure to compete for funds, students, and often expansion like a business.

Whatever you decide I hope your daughter finds a good fit. I went to an extremely diverse district in my old state and it's unfortunate how few schools have that diversity in RI.

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Chosen_one11 OP t1_izttyvw wrote

Thanks for the comment…yes there been a lot of turnover and each year too many changes…I want her to be happier in school. She use to be obsess with going to school now she could care less.

She see what is going on and she’s just 9yrs old. I chose BVP because it’s diversity. I knew Lincoln would as always there so we will make the jump. I’m not sure if mid year is better or just wait for the next school year.

Diversity is different needed in all schools just sucks it’s not everywhere.

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Mountain_Bill5743 t1_iztzk6e wrote

She seems old enough that maybe you could talk to her about her preferences or visit your local school with her. Waiting a few months is probably okay, but if she's checking out maybe you can involve her in some after school programming outside of BVP that will encourage her to enjoy learning again.

I know that the cities like Providence have intramural leagues and after school programming at a number of non profits (mostly older kids). Maybe there are activities she could get involved with outside of school that would still allow her to socialize with a diverse group of kids her age.

I wish you the best! It's great that you are involved and that she feels comfortable talking to you about school fit.

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