A lot of people have herpes bro, life happens to everyone regardless of the risks they take. I was cheated on in a monogamous relationship and got herpes, but guess what my life is still fucking awesome and I still have sex. You think because I have herpes you’ve caught me in some gotcha moment about risk taking? Well guess what I still don’t fucking do, tell other people how they need to manage their own sex life, which is the point here