I also cared a lot about this (bc how hard is it to address an email to my partner AND me!). I had a great experience with Rob Bassett. He was with a different company at the time, but he's here now: https://mcleanmortgage.com/loan_officer/rob-bassett/

I don't know if you're using any of the city or employer grant programs, but Rob was also super familiar with them (and they can be kind of tricky for how they fit into your overall financing/closing).