My random thoughts are that we don’t need a “safe space” so every bar is a gay bar. I don’t fully believe that but that’s what I’m being sold. That said, the other posters have provided gay bars. When I was young I found that Lynn had a few good ones where you could have casual sex without any effort.

This is of course dude-related, not sure about lesbian or trans related stuff. It was very segregated back in the day