Submitted by bedpotato2019 t3_119496i in newhaven
I have a friend who ended up in jail after developing a drug addiction & stealing to support it. She has been in for almost a year and will be released in early April.
I wanted to get her into a sober house, but she would prefer a studio/1br utilities included or even just a room in the $750-$1100 range. I’m planning to cover deposit & rent for the first few months to give her a chance to get reestablished. The place needs to be a decent environment (eg: not a drug house or next door to a drug house).
It also needs to be near public transportation so she can get to her treatment/recovery programs & work.
Do places like this exist? Has anyone dealt with this sort of “re-entry” situation? I know that ultimately her success or failure is up to her, but I’d like to give her the best chance to succeed. Suggestions welcome!
(Before anyone asks, we met when she was my upstairs neighbor - she was evicted after addiction related issues. My landlord won’t allow her on the property, so she can’t stay with me.)
rossiterpj t1_j9kr8i4 wrote
She needs to go to a sober house. If she wants to have her own space that badly, she wants to use. There are plenty of opportunities for addicts to get help. They have to want it.
My advice to you is to lovingly disengage. Don't give her any money. Don't research for her. Don't do anything that relieves her of her own personal responsibility. Involving yourself is only going to lead you to pain.