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zoicyte t1_jegwapf wrote

Reply to comment by Theo_dore229 in Am i the only one who thinks our “rudeness” is highly exaggerated? by user1752916319

I forget where I heard this but I agree that New Jerseyans are kind but not nice, whereas Californians are nice but not kind.

Like a Jerseyan will fix your tire on the side of the road but then call you a dumbass for not knowing how to do it yourself. A Californian will sympathize with your plight but then shrug and drive on.

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Longtermthrowaway5 t1_jegwosz wrote

How do you define kind and nice? And that anecdote was posted as a comment on another post in here yesterday

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zoicyte t1_jegxjch wrote

That’s probably bc it’s from a TikTok going around.

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Longtermthrowaway5 t1_jeh33zx wrote

I feel like I've heard it a while ago originally. But I hate it because it's wildly inaccurate in my experience. But anyway, how do you define kind and nice. I don't feel there is much of a meaningful difference between the two.

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